The More Mature You Are, the More Problem You Have

You can't deny it that it's true and absolute. Similarly, this sounds also like Indonesia's famous saying, "the more a tree get higher, the more it gets winded" and without solid and strong foundation the tree will collapse. I still remember as my elementary teacher said to us her pupils, that when you were still child, you are like a young branch, so flexible. However, when you were already mature, you couldn't be bent, meaning you hardly change! Can u bend an old branch? Sure you can, but at great cost. You have to learn to adapt, but as a child it goes all naturally.
As a mature man, our body, mind, and personality have been shaped and unconsciously prepared to be tough since we were a child based on our environment. That's why it's very bad to give anything your children want. Teach them, in order to get something they have to work on their own in some occasion.
I still remember as my elementary teacher said to us her pupils, that when you were still child, you are like a young branch, so flexible. However, when you were already mature, you couldn't be bent meaning you hardly change! Can u bend an old brench? Sure you can, but at great cost. You have to learn to adapt, but as a child it goes all naturally. If you are weak outside and inside, that's probably crucial reason why you can't succeed in life. If you're solid, world is weak to you, but if you are weak then world is tough to conquer. See?