Let them make mistakes. It may seem odd to think mistakes can lead to independence, but the truth is, this is what will help your child succeed in life. When your child makes a mistake, let them know that it is okay and show them how to approach the task better next time. This small shift in mindset can take your child from believing failure means the end, to failure being a steppingstone up to success.
Give them chores to complete. Try and encourage your child to take on age-appropriate chores such as tidying up after playtime or picking up mess in their room. By involving your child in something that contributes to the house, they will feel empowered and eventually get to the point where they can do it themselves.
Offer them choices. Offering your child freedom within limits is a great way to help them build confidence in themselves and feel a sense of responsibility. The more practice your child has making choices for themselves, the easier independence will come to them.
Give them space. If you are constantly doing everything for your child, they will never have the chance to learn and gain the skills that lead to independence. Give them small opportunities to experience what it is like doing things alone such as taking their dishes to the sink, instead of relying on mom and dad to do it for them.
Avoid overcorrecting. When your child is attempting to do something by themselves, do your best to let them complete the task in their own way. Perfection is not the goal, but to teach your little one skills that will help them become independent and take on responsibility.
K Elizabeth xoxox
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