Whether you’re both going for a coffee, to see a movie, or to have dinner, a first date is a big deal and can be nerve wrecking. On the contrary, your first date does not have to be perfect – the most important thing is to get to know your date and have loads of fun. After all, if the both of you have a ball of a time, it already is a memorable date!
- Think about location
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Picking the right location is very important. You want to choose a place that will be fun and at the same time conducive for both of you – a place that is not too loud. Places like museums and bowling alleys are great options because you would be able to have a conversation with your date. If you are worried that you will not be able to hold a conversation, arrange exciting activities like ice skating or hiking! These kinds of activities will take the pressure off having to find something new to say every five minutes.
- Be attentive
Talk to each other like it is the 1990s! Keep your phone in your bag so that you will not be tempted to check it constantly. Let your date feel that you are genuinely interested in what he or she has to say so they would do the same for you. You can tell your besties all about your date after the both of you part ways!
- Perfection is overrated
Let yourself loose and don’t stress about the little things. If you end up being a goofball and spill coffee on your clothes, don’t fret about it – just laugh it off with your date! Your plans are not going to be perfect and that is alright. At least you and your date would have something to look back at and laugh about in the future!
- Dress comfortably, be confident
Wear clothes that make you feel comfortable in and confident about your body. Shower and make yourself presentable, do not put on too much perfume or cologne. For the ladies, a little bit of basic make up goes a long way. Make sure to be punctual and you might want to surprise your date with some flowers from an online florist.
- End your date on a high note
Make sure the date is well planned and it’s best to end the date on a good note before it has the chance to go stale. Sometimes impromptu plans might be even more exciting – that is, if the both of you are equally spontaneous. Otherwise, a little bit of planning does no harm!
- Don’t hide your quirky habits
Don’t be afraid to be yourself. First dates are for learning about each other and seeing how compatible you are with each other. If you pretend to be all prim and proper your date might never get the chance to know the real you. What if he or she likes the way you mix your maple syrup into your tea or scratch your nose every time you get nervous? You will never know if you try to act normal. These quirky bits are a part of you and you deserve someone who will appreciate them!
If it doesn’t go well and you can’t imagine yourself going on future dates with them, it is alright. There are plenty of fish in the sea and with every date, you will learn something new about yourself, your preferences, and how to better prepare for other dates. If a date does not go well, do not take it to heart – it is important to enjoy the journey to finding the right person who best fits you!
