Whether you’re both going for a coffee, to see a movie, or to have dinner, a first date is a big deal and can be nerve wrecking. On the contrary, your first date does not have to be perfect – the most important thing is to get to know your date and have loads of fun. After all, if the both of you have a ball of a time, it already is a memorable date!
- Think about location
Picking the right location is very important. You want to choose a place that will be fun and at the same time conducive for both of you – a place that is not too loud. Places like museums and bowling alleys are great options because you would be able to have a conversation with your date. If you are worried that you will not be able to hold a conversation, arrange exciting activities like ice skating or hiking! These kinds of activities will take the pressure off having to find something new to say every five minutes.
- Be attentive
- Perfection is overrated
- Dress comfortably, be confident
- End your date on a high note
Make sure the date is well planned and it’s best to end the date on a good note before it has the chance to go stale. Sometimes impromptu plans might be even more exciting – that is, if the both of you are equally spontaneous. Otherwise, a little bit of planning does no harm!
- Don’t hide your quirky habits
If it doesn’t go well and you can’t imagine yourself going on future dates with them, it is alright. There are plenty of fish in the sea and with every date, you will learn something new about yourself, your preferences, and how to better prepare for other dates. If a date does not go well, do not take it to heart – it is important to enjoy the journey to finding the right person who best fits you!