I don't know if I'm born with defects as I perceive it,which could be perceived as a god gift by an optimist. I guess, the set up of our mind is the result of a trial and error method (learning and deleting) that happens in our sub conscious mind. Whatever processes in our sub conscious is what we are totally unaware of and that is exactly. what changes your life. Incidences that change us, our thoughts and the vision of looking at life are what we see and we learn from.This data enters your sub conscious mind first as you hadn't planned learning it and after sometime you when you ponder over the magnitude of its effect on you, you become completely conscious of what you see and then you learn.
In this post I describe what I saw and what I learnt