I don't know about you, but life is busy.
I believe God designed us women to be able to handle the mess of life. Just
think about it -- how many things are you juggling in your head right now?
The kids need breakfast, one needs a diaper change, the dog needs
water, the laundry needs folding, the rent needs to be paid, the car needs
vacuuming, the bathrooms need scrubbing, the blog posts need to be written,
your hair could use a trim, you need to start thinking about dinner, you'd like
to squeeze in a shower, those letters in your car are still waiting to be
mailed, bible study homework needs to be done, events need to be added to the Facebook group you admin...
... and all of that goes through your
mind in just 2 minutes' time. Right? Maybe you keep a to-do list, a day
planner, or just try -- like I do -- to keep it all sorted in your head, because
keeping a day-planner would just mean one more thing to keep track of. So where
does your fitness fit in with all of life's mess?
Maybe you are a fitness fanatic and
already put your workouts high on your to-do list. If so, then kudos! Keep it
up!!!
But if you struggle a bit with fitting it
into your schedule, here are some tips I've found to help me make fitness a
priority in my life.
Schedule Your Workouts
Just as you would schedule anything else
that is important -- doctor's appointments, date night with your husband or
play dates for your kids -- set a time and place for your workout and
do not let it be negotiable. If a friend asks you out to lunch,
but you've scheduled a trip to the gym at that time, tell her you can't make
it. You wouldn't skip the doctor's appointment for a lunch date (at least I
hope you wouldn't), so don't skip your workout for it either. Sometimes things
come up and you may have to reschedule, but make every effort to keep your
appointment!
If you find you have trouble keeping your
workout appointments, analyze why that is. Make sure you choose a time of day
when you're least likely to have schedule conflicts or motivation problems. If
you can only workout in the wee hours of the morning, but find it hard to
choose working out over sitting on the couch with your coffee and facebook, I
recommend laying out your workout clothes where you can't miss them and put them
on as soon as you get up - including shoes! Have everything you need all set up
and ready to go the night before - you'll be less likely to find an excuse not
to follow through with your plan when your alarm goes off.
Set Tangible Goals
When you work toward a tangible goal --
meaning a goal you can measure, see and feel -- you are more likely to keep
fitness as a top priority. Your goal can be big or small, but it must
have a target date. Some good examples:
Complete 10 full push-ups by the end of
the month.
Do one unassisted pull-up by January 1,
2014.
Run one mile straight, with no walking,
within 2 months.
Complete a 5K in 4 months.
Survive a half-marathon in 9
months.
Choose goals that can be measured and set
a deadline. For strength-based goals (pushups, pullups, etc) keep a log to
track your progress. It doesn't have to be anything fancy -- a notepad, piece
of paper, an old napkin, anything. For running goals, I highly recommend registering
for area races. Active.com is a great website for finding 5Ks, 10Ks, Color
Runs, mud runs, even zombie runs in your area. Registration fees can vary, but
I have found that shucking out some money keeps me from backing out of the race
-- trust me, the $100+ entry fee for the Tough Mudder is one of the only
reasons I haven't given up on that goal yet!
One caveat here - I encourage you to
choose goals not tied to the scale, because weight-loss and fitness
are not necessarily the same. As you get stronger you are likely to
see the weight-loss stall or even reverse, because as you gain muscle (which is
denser than fat) you may actually be gaining weight. Instead, if weight-loss is
an overall goal, hide the scale and gauge your progress by how your clothes fit
and how you feel, rather than the number.
Buddy Up
Find a friend to workout with you. Your
husband, your best friend, a coworker, a stranger off the street (okay, maybe
be careful with that one...) But... when you have someone to hold you
accountable for showing up and sticking with it, you are more likely
to succeed in your fitness goals. Now, I typically dislike working out with
friends. While I like class settings, I find it distracting to be there with a
buddy, because I feel obligated to chat, and then I don't focus. But I have
recently started running with a friend once or twice a week -- and while our
babies tend to create many reasons for canceling, running with her has helped
boost my motivation. Plus, since she's a talker when she runs, it forces me to
work on improving my endurance as I try to keep up my end of the conversation.
:)
Choose the Right Workout
Choose an activity that is fun for you
and fits your personality. If you try to force yourself to do a program that is
boring or doesn't match your workout style, you are less likely to commit. What
works for one person doesn't always work for someone else. Don't pick a workout
program simply because the infomercial promised you results. You won't get
results if the program isn't a good fit for you. For instance, some people
really like working out individually or with a couple close friends, just doing
exercises in sets, and that is more the style of, say, P90X. Other
people like group fitness, or class, settings, which is more in the realm of
Turbo Fire or Les Mills Body Pump. If you hate running, then maybe
cycling or swimming would be a better fit.
In my post next week, I'll be going
over some of my favorite workout routines, programs, and classes. So if you
don't know which style of workout is for you, or if you want ideas for workouts
to try, you'll want to keep an eye out for that! See you then!
April is a new lover of running and all
things fitness. After having her second baby, she set and conquered her fitness
goals - having now completed four 5K races, including a mud run, and having
worked her way up to doing 5 unassisted pull-ups. She is registered to do the
Tough Mudder in Colorado this summer, and is just praying she survives. She
writes about faith, family, and her life as an Army National Guard wife and
stay-at-home mom over at Hearts On Guard.