
One of the things that as a parent I struggle to know if I'm getting right is mealtimes with my toddler. I think I've always felt an additional pressure with mealtimes because Adam and I are raising Ethan as vegetarian, so we're quite particular about seeing that he gets his protein from non-meat sources. Around a year ago, I'd let this pressure build up and turn into anxiety. I would go over the top and stress myself out with worrying about what foods Ethan was and wasn't eating. He's my first child and so I suppose this is probably quite natural, but after a chat with the health visitor, I've since calmed down and relaxed quite a great deal when it comes to mealtimes and I really do feel so much better for it.
I think we're lucky in that Ethan loves egg - a big source of protein and also cheese. He'll drink milk everyday still (just as long as it has a banana blended in to it!) and he's even getting better with trying different fruits. At his age, I am reluctant to accept that there are any foods that he doesn't like.. I've tried him with things previously that he's spat out or point blank refused, but when I've tried him again another day he's eaten whatever it was that he'd previously refused. So for us, I think it's about encouragement and not giving up on the first go when it comes to getting Ethan to try new foods. Ethan, like most children, goes through phases of eating really well and then he'll go through phases of really trying it on to see if he can get his all time favorite meal of pasta rather than the vegetables I've served up on his plate. I think as parents, Adam and I just accept that this is just part of toddler-hood and so try to take the approach of staying calm and giving lots of encouragement We have occasionally offered him different foods if we truly believe that he has tried and doesn't like or want what we've given him, but this is rare as we don't want him to learn that he can take charge when it comes to demanding different meals. We like to encourage variety. Breakfast is always our easiest mealtime, followed by lunch. It's at dinner time when we can run in to a bit of trouble, but on the whole things have started to get a little easier and as I mentioned above, I put this down to different phases that Ethan goes through. A month or so ago I took a survey that I was sent via email around children's eating habits conducted by MyVoucherCodes.co.uk, the results of which have since been published over on FamilyFriendlyWorking.co.uk. The results are quite interesting and the article is well worth a read..
The survey asked: “Do you let your children decide what to eat?” To which 67% of parents said, yes.
They also asked parents how often they allowed their children to eat snacks, convenience and fast foods as well as sugary drinks.
- Sugary and fizzy drinks – 62% of parents allow their children to drink these every day.
- Caffeine drinks – 14% of children are drinking these drinks every day.
- Crisps and Snacks – 32% of parents let their children eat these every day.
- Chocolate, biscuits & breakfast bars – 39% of parents give their children these every day.
- Raw vegetables, fruit or nuts as a snack – 26% of parents have never given their children these.
- Pre-prepared ready meals – 45% of parents will feed their children these meals at least a couple of times a week.
- Sausage rolls & shop bought sandwiches – 28% of children are given these at least once a week.


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