This Post is about my past and is in no way directed toward any one person or anything like that, if you find yourself thinking it’s about you…Please do me a favor and keep it to yourself because this is just a rant, a way for me to analyze my past mistakes such as worrying about what moron’s and hypocrite’s say about me, my life and my writing.
So for the past few week’s or so I have been thinking about some thing’s I need to change in my life. This post will explain a few of theme and I will also express my opinion on shady, jealous, and arrogant people I have come across in my life and Why I am not going to let their terrible opinions bother me ever again.
So as I am sure most everyone has run into some weird,shady,and arrogant people in their lifetime I bet some of you who end up reading this can relate.
Recently Some thing’s have been on my mind and they have been bothering me a bit, thing’s I wish I would not have let get to me in the past, such as people who act like they are your friend but truly aren’t just so they can gain something by being your friend or use you for what ever reason.
Those type of people are called shady. And I have certainly met a few like that here on WordPress. Most of the time Shady people think that their Poop is golden and that they truly are above everyone else….or as I like to say…some idiot having a god complex.
In the past I have let people like this get under my skin and allowed them to affect me by caring about what people who don’t know me say, what their opinions are and all that. Well…NO MORE.
In this world everyone has their own opinion’s and view’s on thing’s but when you let someone who doesn’t even know you…get under your skin for whatever reason…that’s when you know you have a problem and you need to learn not to let worthless goon’s and their ignorant word’s affect you.
Since I started blogging I have received some pretty nasty hate mail along with some comments and other things. All of this started when my Blog started to actually get a few subscribers, likes, and comments.
When that happened…all of a sudden everyone claimed to be an expert on poetry and writing and they told me how much better of a writer and poet they were than me and they tried to force their opinions on me. A few people even tried to tell me how I should write MY poetry and what to do and what not to do…because in their opinion I was doing it all wrong and they didn’t approve of it.
Some people were jealous after I gained more than 10 subscribers or more than 20 likes on my blog, which a lot of blogger’s told me to expect it…that it would definitely happen, and it’s funny how people can get upset over nothing.
Some people stopped talking to me, and others sent some entertaining hate mail and other things.
Some Writers and author’s on here think they are the next J.K Rowling or the next Edgar Allan Poe which gives them the right to be a dick head and a jackass. It’s rather enjoyable.
I especially liked the email I got of this particular person saying how much better of a writer they were than me and most of the other bloggers on word press because they had a few self published books. Sorry to brake it to you bud…but I can also write a book and pay 25$-50$ on a website or find a graphic designer and pay some guy in china to make a book cover design for me…go out and buy a self publishing kit and then post my book up on amazon…any new or aspiring author can accomplish that…you are not god and you are certainly not above all the other writers here on WP.
It also does not guarantee that your book is even worth reading, or that it’s worth buying…it just means you wrote a book like the other 4948594594 author’s in the world.
Why you would attack me over nothing is beyond me. But whatever the reason whether it’s jealousy,arrogance, pride,anger…you won’t get very far in life with an outlook like that.
I have one thing to say about the type of people described above ^ and I shall say it with a not so serious sponge bob picture:
Truer word’s have yet to be spoken.
If you don’t like my poetry or reviews or my writing you can gladly click the unsubscribe button and never read another one of my posts again, No one is forcing you to read my work, it is that simple. And That is fine with me if that’s how you feel I totally understand.
But one thing I WILL not tolerate is someone trying to force something on me…someone who is attempting to judge me when they don’t even know me….someone who like’s to label people and categorize people…These idiot’s are called Bigot’s.
If you want to pass judgment on someone you don’t know I suggest taking a long good look in the mirror first, and figure out why it is you feel so inclined to judge others, because obviously you have a few problems you need to work out.
If you label me or use a stereotype on me I will defend myself because that’s who I am…if you judge me I will not sit idly by and let you belittle me, that’s just not the type of person I am.
But on a brighter note I am happy to have haters, because that means I am doing something right. Here is one of my favorite quotes:
I totally agree.
I am Known for doubting myself and that is a terrible thing to do, it invite’s others to do the same, and it also allows my weaknesses to be shown to people who will try to use them against me.
That is why I am making this pledge to myself to stop caring about people and what they have to say who have no meaning in my life or to me what so ever.
If you hate me cool if you think I am an ass good for you…But I will stand up for myself…and that’s just all there is to it.
No I don’t care about what you think of my poems because I know I like them and they are certainly fun to write & compose and that’s all that matter’s to me anymore.
People need to stop taking themselves and their work to seriously. You are not better or above anyone…and if you truly think you are than it’s obvious you are one arrogant human being.
I am truly thankful for all the comment’s and emails and all the wonderful people here on WordPress and the people who subscribed to my blog/followed it, who kept telling me to stop doubting myself, and to stand up for myself more often, That’s exactly what I plan to do from this day forward.
BTW if you have any of the personality traits above ^ or if you think you are a professional writer/Poet,…LOL Please do remove me from your subscriber’s/follower’s list and do not return to my blog to read anything of mine or to post a comment or send me an email, I don’t want to read anymore garbage from self-conscious people.
And if you plan to use me or my friendship to you or my writing to in turn gain something or make yourself feel better or whatever your intentions may be that are sketchy and shady…just know this…I will stand up for myself…I will speak my mind.
Sorry to whoever read’s this long boring rant but I just had to get this off my chest before I exploded.
Thanks for reading my amazing rant, my next post will be a “Happy Poem” So I will certainly make up for all this sad gloom and doom type of stuff that I put in this post.
I am proud to be me, I don’t want to be you…so stay out of my business because your opinion=nothing. My new quote! =p Probably my first quote ever…Yep.
