This time of the year gets to be hard. Every year, about this time, it hits me, that I decided to move away from my family, and how much I truly miss them comes out. The holidays bring that out.
For the most part, most days, I can keep my mind active and not dwell on this feeling for too long, but boom, it hits and the sadness can get pretty overwhelming. This year has especially been hard because at the end of September we moved to Northern California.
I am incredibly grateful we have one set of family to be around, but I’m also finding, that this time around, with this move, is now that I have friends I miss deeply, but also activities I seem to be missing out on, and it’s hitting even harder this year.
So, for those back in Minnesota, if I don’t say it enough, I love and miss you dearly.
And for those in Los Angeles, I miss seeing you at events, sharing a laugh, or just chatting. Lets make sure to reconnect in 2014 with phone calls down the road to keep the friendships going.
Ways I try to get through the holidays without my side of the family around is never easy, but some ways I try to distract myself include:
Sending Gifts Ahead of Time.
Making Phone Calls on the Actual Holiday.
Keeping myself Busy by exploring and discovering the latest Holiday event in town.
Treating myself, I tend to splurge on myself a bit this time of the year. Anything that can help bring a smile to make things a bit more easier is worth it.
And also thinking about memories of the past. Hold onto those memories. They truly help a ton when not around those that you love and care for.
For those, like me, who may not be around family this time of the year know I am sending you a big virtual hug, a smile across the room, and know, that feeling sucks.
And for those that fortunate to have family around, cherish those moments, and enjoy the time. And for those that may have family that drive you nuts, just remember, it’s only a few days then things will quiet down again.
Just needed to get a bit of this out… my personal reflection.
And gosh darnit, if you live in Northern California, send me a hello! I need some friends up here. stat! LOL
