As I was talking to my oldest, I learned that the father had killed his son and then he committed suicide. My son didn't know the teen but he does know the daughter. It just hit me with an overwhelming grief for a family who now is in mourning over the deaths, I'm sure greatly saddened by the death of her son.
I can't begin to tell you how this just made me feel about an act of violence and then he took the coward's way out over what he did. How a man can commit murder is a truly terrible thing. I don't care if he's done it himself, or whether any man can have someone else do it for him, whatever the situation may be. How can a man end his son's young life?????
Why do people feel they need to kill another human being? Why do people feel they have to threaten another person is beyond me. Our world is filled with the meanest people on earth. I've met a bunch of them and I hope to never EVER be their next news story in any violent death. I HATE MEAN PEOPLE!!!!!!!
And why do people feel it is their DIVINE RIGHT TO HACK ANOTHER PERSON"S PRIVATE LIFE?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? It's NEVER EVER THEIR RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why DO MEN BATTER?????? NO ABUSE IS GOOD ABUSE!!!!!!!! I don't care if it's physical or emotional, neglect, verbal or any other type of abuse. STOP DOING WHAT YOU DO!!! Someday all these men who feel they can batter their women in any way, shape or form will someday if they will never fess up to what they did, will have to spend some time in PURGATORY someday for what they have done before any angel is going to let them into HEAVEN!!!! I don't care if they never admit what they did or say sorry now, any man who has battered is going to have to someday face the fact that what they have done is WRONG!!!
It not only hurts the woman, it hurts the children and everyone who knows the one who has been abused and wronged.
I don't care what the man's reason for behind what he does, it's NEVER OKAY!!!!!!
That poor mother has got to know that everyone will be by her side and her daughter's in this awful crime that took her son's life. I do not know you, but I am by your side, thinking of you in this time of loss and I pray that you can find it in your heart to get passed the anger someday that he took your son away from you.
Oh, I would just hate for that to ever happen to my kids and as a mother, I feel your pain. The grief of losing a child is unbearable. The thought of it just makes me so upset at all the violence in our world.
It's Christmas time and what the world needs is for LOVE, PEACE, HARMONY, HOPE AND HAPPINESS!!! Helping Hands!!! My mother once was in a commercial for Vaseline, Helping Hands. ALL THOSE GOOD PEOPLE IN OUR WORLD AND ALL GOODNESS, KINDNESS, SIMPLE ACTS that help others should be made universal.
LIKE I'VE SAID SO MANY TIMES, AND I WILL BE AN ADVOCATE FOR THIS FOREVER UNTIL I'M OLD AND GRAY, LET US END ALL SUICIDE IN THE WORLD AS WELL!!! WE SHOULD ALL JUST DIE NATURALLY, AND HOPEFULLY LIVE A FULL LIFE. THAT IS IF WE CAN STOP CANCER AND OTHER DISEASE!
KILLING OTHERS IS WRONG!!!!!!!! WHY ARE THERE DRUGS, DRUG RINGS, SEX CRIMES, PORN, DRUG TRAFFICING, BATTERERS, COLD BLOODED KILLERS, THREATENERS, HARASSERS, HACKERS OF ANY KIND, MEAN PEOPLE, PEOPLE WHO JUST AS SOON END SOMEONE'S LIFE IF BELIEVED THE GOOD PERSON IS A PROBLEM, OR ANY OTHER TERRIBLE REASON TO END ANYONE'S LIFE!!!!!!!!
THREATS ARE THREATS AND ARE NOT TAKEN LIGHTLY!!!!!!!!
GO TO PLUTO!!!!!! I WISH BAD PEOPLE WOULD BE BURIED ON PLUTO!!!!!! THE POOR SANDY HOOK ANGELS!!! THE BATMAN MURDERS!!!!
Or when a family man just thinks he can take a life. DOMESTIC VIOLENCE OF ALL KINDS NEEDS TO BE STOPPED BEFORE A DEATH HAPPENS.
It's not always easy to recognize the signs of domestic violence though. Sometimes it stays hidden forever. A man can scare a woman into worrying for herself and her children. All it sometimes takes is even the mention of a gun and that can just make a woman see a red flag. The mention of anything. I don't care how a man does it, it's wrong.
We just don't know what any BATTERER IS TRULY THINKING. We as women just know we don't like it and PLEASE STOP!!!
Like Lenore L. Walker stated in her book, A woman is the best judge as to whether or not she has been BATTERED. SHE DOES NOT LIE!!!!!!!
We are put on this world for a reason, we do not know when our time is truly up, and our path has already been chosen for us even though we do not understand it all until someday when our lives have been fullfilled and we understand the true meaning of our paths of existence.
Good always wins out over this terrible EVIL that invades our Earth every day. We see it in all walks of life how Corrupt our society is and we are just trying to make it all stop.
Some of it is just beyond our control and sometimes we cannot do a thing about it, but what we can control is OURSELVES!!! We should all try to not let other's take away our self esteem, all that is good and strong in us, find ways to make our communities a better place to live in.
Just hearing today that all those students are seeking solace within their classmates, teachers, counselors and others who wish GOODWILL ON EARTH makes me feel better that they can express their feelings with each other and try to move past a horrible event that just doesn't make sense.
And for people to try to understand why the father did what he did? And to try to find a way to someday forgive him. It will ultimately set everyone free. It's a very hard thing to do, but as one of my uncles once said, "FORGIVENESS IS A GIFT OF HIGH VALUE. BUT IT COSTS VERY LITTLE TO GIVE." Thank-you to my uncle as that is one of the greatest gifts he has EVER given me and I will never forget it.
And what doesn't kill you will always make you stronger. There of so many strong people in the world silently holding hands with another human being, praying with them, just simply being there in their time of need.
All it takes is another person to reach out to another and simply listen. Nobody is ever truly alone. Even if you are physically alone. All happiness begins with yourself and you can either let anything get the best of you or you can choose to rise about anything and continue with what you need to do in your life.
No path is right or wrong, but it's OUR CHOICES IN LIFE AND OURS ALONE that is going to make it better for you and your family or what's right for me and mine.
I'm a good listener and I take all good advice and even the bad advice because we can learn from anything and take it into our happy existence called MY LIFE!!!!
And even when people do the absolute meanest things to another person, it becomes your resource to FORGE AHEAD. AND IT AS WELL BECOMES THE WRITERS RESOURCE. SORRY MEAN PEOPLE, IT IS WHAT IT IS AND WE HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO USE IT IN OUR FICTION, VENTING JOURNALS OR OTHER WRITING. YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO TAKE THAT AWAY FROM US!!!
TO MY MEAN PEOPLE, YOUR NAMELESS but ITS MY RIGHT TO USE SNIPPETS IN MY FICTION.
And if a horrible thing has happened to anyone, they all have the right to express it with others as the victims, every single right to vent in a private journal and it's ours alone. No mean person has the right to go and erase someone's private journals or anything else.
How dare you threaten a VICTIM of any sort not to vent!!!!! THAT'S absolutely horrible of you.
STOP ALL EVIL. You are bad. And if you just will not stop even if someone tells you over and over to STOP IT, how dare you even continue. Obviously no kind bone in your bodies.
And a cold blooded killer is just EVIL. We want to stop hearing about all crime in the world. Yet, we are forced all the time to hear about another bad thing someone has just done.
PURE EVIL AND PURE ASS!!!!
Jennifer Jo Fay
Copyrighted December 19, 2013