Here is my list of things to do and skills to master before I become Mrs. Chasing Joy.
- Get to a weight I'm comfortable with. I need to lose weight to be healthier and to feel more confident. I think it will be easier to do this now when I can devote my time and attention to it. Now I am only focusing on cooking for myself and I do have time to exercise that I won't necessarily have when I am married. Also I should establish these routines now.
- Learn how to keep house. I'm just not good at this. While I like to cook, I'm really not very domestic. I am guilty of having more things than I have space for, of not putting this up, and of letting things like dishes pile up . I don't want this to be an issue in my future marriage. Or I can just get a maid. I'm seriously considering the later.
- Go on vacation by myself. I have traveled alone but never for vacation. I have gone out of town by myself several times for work. I have gone away for blog conference. These types of trips have built in schedules and purposes. I have traveled with friends and family. Those trips were fun but require coordination with others and consideration of what they want to get out of the trip. I want to go away by myself for no particular reason other than to visit someplace I want to go. I will be able to do whatever I want on my own time schedule. This will require me to be a bit brave as solo traveling does feel a little scary.
- Buy myself an expensive piece of jewelry. There is no reason for a modern woman such as myself to have to wait for a man to give her an expensive piece of jewelry.
- Take my boudoir photos. This has been on my to do list for a while. I want to capture my sexier side in print. I may have a hard time selling this to future husband. I also want to do this just for me and not as a gift for him.
If your single what's on your BMBL? If you are married what would you recommend a single girl like me add to her list.