I was talking to a couple of my college girlfriends the other night, and I got to thinking about the affect of time and distance on all friendships. I'm truly lucky to have such supportive and loving ladies by my side through the different chapters of my life. My friends are very important to me.
My "college" girls are the ones I call when I have big news, a problem, or just need someone to talk to. They know all of my weaknesses, flaws, and issues... and they continue to support and love me unconditionally.Our experiences together haven't always been perfect, but when I am spending time with these girls... I am truly happy. Even though we don't talk everyday, we have the ability to pick up where we left off in our weekly phone conversations.It's only been a few years since our amazing adventure together through college ended and now we are scattered across California. But... we always do what we can to make sure we're together a couple times a year and for the big moments in each other's lives.
I've been so fortunate to keep in touch with a few friends from high school - especially my best friend, Jenny. This girl and I have been through so much, including living 500 miles apart and we've stayed very close. She is like a sister to me.
And when TL and I moved to our new area almost 2 years ago... I met an incredible group of girls who i've gotten close with. They are so encouraging, funny, and always have something new to teach me about life. I always leave our Happy Hour dates with a belly ache from laughing so hard.
"Friendship is not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything." - Muhammad Ali
All of you fabulous girls that I have met and connected with in this community of bloggers are also my friends. I feel like we know a lot about each other, and I appreciate the support & encouragement you always give to me! I've learned so much from your creativity, life experiences, and adventures. Thank you :)
Friends come and go in our lives as we grow and change individually. And I think that's okay. I find it interesting that people at all different stages and ages in life can develop friendships.
Do you have certain friends in your life that are irreplaceable?Happy Weekend!