As a carer there are so many things that need to be done in order to get through the day. You are not only thinking of yourself but another adult who needs your support for all their needs. You can then find yourself busy in a lot of stuff, with deadlines and to do lists, busy, each with their own pressure and sometimes feel that you are rushing through life missing out on the blessings and relationships that are actually right in front of you.
You plan, and schedule, burning the candle at both ends, trying to reach a goal and then wonder why that headache that has been bothering you is still there, and when you start to think about it those aches and pains have been around for a while and so many things hurt. The time that you crave to spend on those things that really matter and that nurture and minister to your soul are put aside and you are all timed out.
What you need is balance and the time to savor, to sit, to think and reflect. Among those plans and schedules and the daily things that you have to do - including looking after those you care for you have to make real time for those you love and to be with friends and share your life. You have to notice the little things and take stock of where you are right at this moment and savor it, even if it is just for 5 minutes. I have found it important to savor the moments that I am able to spend with my mum, each special in its own way, where we can be in each other's company and just be still. 
I am grateful and celebrate the still times that I can organize just to be. Without watching the clock or chasing another deadline, or worrying about what needs to be done but to spend time with those people that really matter in my life.
What can you to to take some time out to savor in your life right now
I look forward to the journey and hope you come along and join me. Why not start your own journal, keep it as simple or complex as you wish, but do something!
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Check out Silver Sunday which is an annual day of fun and free activities for older people across the UK. Led by The Sir Simon Milton Foundation, it celebrates older people and their contribution to our communities while combating loneliness and isolation. Everyone can get involved, and you can organize your own event, spread the word, or simply attending an activity. Silver Sunday will take place on 5th October 2014!
