Till date I have no idea how I bought up from the day I born to present. After seeing the mail from
IndiBloggerto write a post “How will you development of your child?” Then I went to my father and asked about how I bought up….. You were born in the month of April hot summer season and it was very tough to handle you for your mom and me and we are with no choice except your grandmother. It is just because of her you here asking me this question to me now. I called up my grandmother to know how I grown up in her hands. She picked up the phone and a sweet words that I can hear over my mobile and it is my grandmother. I asked the same question “How I bought up..?” , she giggled when she hears these word from me I think she had no idea of these kind of questions. After a few seconds she started me explaining the way I am from my birth to conscious state (apx 1yrs). I left my ear to the micro speaker of mobile and started uploading the data in to deep layer of my brain so that I can’t forget.
From 0-12 months:
As I was born in hot summer season, to prevent me from sunlight and to the humidity I was roofed under banana leaf, they used to roll me under banana leaf as chapattis rolled over chicken and served as chicken rolls. Lot a care was taken at the time of sunset because the nature of climate is used to change drastically at that time. And the mean while my mother is used to feed me with milk, the problem is I am drunker milk drunker I used to drink one litter of milk (apx). My father taken me to hospital weekly to check my weight is in a correct ratio to my days of birth and I tasted few vaccinations with an unbearable sound of cry. I used take bath twice a day sorry they bathed me…My grandmother taken much care not much it is ultra-care for my bathing, she moved her hands over my body very gently so that it will not hurt me. After that I will be under taken to body massage session where she used to massage my body with coconut oil, that oil kept my body moisture all the day. Surroundings are maintained clean and healthy so that I will not infected with any diseases. Grandmother, Mother and Father taken a lot of care for me. Not only family member there are some third party member so called neighbours. They used suggest my Mom what is good for me and what not. One among them suggested my Mom to pull away hands and legs away from body this will help in the growth of bones…..no word uttered from my mouth just thanks for what all she did to me. I kept the phone down. Now my foot stared toward mother to know the rest of things.
From 1-6 years:
It taken almost 16 months you to walk my son. That day I saw you, you are struggling to walk by taken support from the side wall. It was an exhilarating feeling like a caterpillar emerging out of a cocoon when you stared pushing the ground back with your feet on your own. You are really a drunker you drunk not less than liter milk per day and still you will cry for milk, your father used to tease me you given birth to a boy or Kumbhakarna. Till 3
rd year you have a special visitor and he used to visit you very frequently and he is Mr Cold. You are affected by cold and cough very frequently your father taken to many doctors but all are remained failure then I shared this with one of my friend and she suggested me to give milk by add a little amount of pepper and it worked you are free form cold and cough. From 3
rdyear your father used to send you to school I urged with to not to send you to school at this early stage, but your father convinced me in this competition world we should prepare our son as the best and it is done by education only. It is very hard for me to left you alone at school gate, but few days later you are very comfortable with your school and you used to say that we played games Mummy, I lost my pencil Mummy, you showed me the cup got as second price in musical chair with proud as you got World cup. For that day on-wards I given milk by adding dates to improve your body so that you can make many cup and you show me all those with same pride. All those moments are magical and they can’t come back just we can rewind them. Tears rolled in my Mom eyes and mine too as well…….
From 6-12:
I asked my father are you changing my school, but why? It is very good in this school what the need of joining in a new school ? My father said, “
When you change your school you can find more new people to make friends and you can play different games with them”. It is not complete with one change I used to change school every two year and I think this is reason I found many people in my Facebook friends list. I think at the age of eight you are affected with
Chicken pox you were wrapped with Neem leaves for one month. Did you remember your first film shown in your school
Police Story? After the film I seen a lot of change in you, your walking style and your way of speaking you’re not doing anything just imagining yourself as hero in the film and imitating him, I thought I am going to see you as a police officer. That film made a lot of impact on you whenever someone asked what is your goal? With no second option you used to answer them as
Police. You made me to feel proud by your answer as Police then I thought a film can make a lot of impact on child. From then I made you to see good film so that you can get good behavior and positive thinking and strength to reach your goal and I am done and now you are here the same way I dreamt.
From 12-18:
And now it is my turn to explain my self now I am teen. My father bought me a new cycle so that I can go to school on my own. From this stage friend plays a major role in building yourself. In most of the cases by seeing your friend one can assess what you are. I can explain you in detail with an example one of my close friend caught with slip in his pocket by invigilator in our 8
thclass examination, next he came to and asked to taken out slip I am confused, I replied I have nothing but he didn't believe he checked every pocket of mine and found no slip from me. I am free but not my mind I felt very embarrassed by this incident and after returning to home I explained everything with a good screenplay. My Mom consoled me not to worry and said people whom you make as friends will reflect you, not only family friend also play an import role in every one life. And still I remember those words and till last breath. Tenth class results were out, I was tensed how many marks I got whether I am passed or failed lot of things going on mind. The person who is entering my number observed me and said why are you tensed don’t worry you will definitely pass, if unfortunately you failed don’t worry you can clear it in next time for everything there will be a solution and a way to get that solution. I am passed in first class with 85% I am happy, here there is no relation between me and the man he is not my family not even friend but his word are stored Static RAM of my brain those are not erasable. Those words keep me cool and positive….From then on-wards I accepting everything positively not lot losing my temper at any situation, I friend used to call me as Mr.Cool.
And this is how I bought up and this post I written for Dabur Lal Tail contest.
And this is how I bought up and this post I written for Dabur Lal Tail contest.
