Its important to make goals Time Sensitive so that they don't morph from goal to wishful thinking. Below are my goals and the timeliness I'm applying to them.
- Lose 80 lbs and wear a size 14 - This is a long term goal. The final deadline is my 36th birthday. That is a year and a half away. This is a very realistic time frame. It works out to about 1 lb a week. Milestones I want to meet on the way to this long term goal include the following: Lose 20 lbs by the end of the year (1.33 lbs a week); Lose 35 lbs by my birthday (works out to 1.4 lbs a week.); Lose 50 lbs by Sept 2015 (1 lb a week); and make the final goal of the 80 lbs by March 17 2016. This is so doable. I just have to believe it. I have always had doubts when I tried to lose weight before. Believing it will help me with the changes I need to make.
- Go from single to in a happy committed relationship - This goal is a tricky one. I don't know that I can put a time limit on love. What I can do is have a goal for how many dates I'd like to go on. I will use my birthday ( which is in 6 months) as a time frame. Over the next 6 months I'd like to go on 15 dates. That is a lot of dating for me. This will not guarantee I'll find Mr. Joy Chaser. It will guarantee that I learn more about what I want and don't want in a man, and that I get to know some new guys and/or get to know the guys I already know better. If there is someone you'd like me to meet just let me know as I am up for blind dates. :-) A sub goal related to dating from my action plan was to make a list of the things I want and don't want in a man. I am giving myself until Halloween to complete the list.
- Have more fun - This is an ongoing goals so there is no end date.When I came up with the action plan the timeline was built in. The plan is to have at least 1 fun activity planned for the weekend by Wednesday of every week. The other part of the action plan was to create a go to list of fun activities that I can do with or without friends. Have you noticed that I like making lists? LOL. The due date for the fun activities list is also going to be Halloween. So I'll have two lists due on that holiday.
- Writing the 1st draft of my Chasing Joy book - I have never written a book before so I don't know what a realistic timeline is like. I have heard of some other bloggers creating e-books over a few days. That is very unrealistic for me. I want my book to be of quality and substance and from the heart. What I will do is commit to giving you guys a monthly check in stating words/ pages/ and chapters written. After a few months I will revisit and create a new time line.
What goals are you working on? What do you think of my timeliness? I'd love your advice.