There are several factors on which this debate has been raging and it came to the forefront of my thoughts yesterday when my friend brought up the topic. She asked me my opinion on the subject and I gave it. Fortunately, she had an opposing view of the same, which made for a lively discussion.Here are some of the points we pondered upon.Choice
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AGAINST: One cannot do anything at any place. People do gross things out on beaches and in gardens. One must see to believe.FOR: People can do whatever they want until and unless it encroaches upon other people’s rights. Two consenting adults engaged in PDA have decided to do so out of their free will. Who has the right to stop them?
To Look or Not to Look
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AGAINST: It is right in one’s face and that it can be hard to avoid looking even if one tries.FOR: One has the choice to look away if one is uncomfortable when people are engaged in PDA.It is entirely based upon viewer’s discretion. And it is actually sort of creepy if one stares at two people doing something to each other.
The ‘Kids’ Argument
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AGAINST: It affects kids and their mindset about what’s happening in society.FOR: Today’s generation comes fully equipped to deal with any question. They have a best friend called Google and a cousin called television. Together, they teach the children so much that it cannot affect them to see it in real life.AGAINST: But how would it affect them to see all these things happening around them.FOR: They will ask question, uncomfortable questions. Questions that parents in India still loathe answering; questions that are avoided because the subject itself is taboo. It is only when these questions arise that India will open up to the idea of sex education in the country instead of denying outright that there is nothing like sex and that it is just a myth.
Being Gross
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AGAINST: It is absolutely gross what people do to each other in public places.FOR: It is an expression of love.AGAINST: One has to gross to know gross. Some of the things people do are outrageous.FOR: If people do the same things in their bedroom, it is great. Secretly, everyone wants to do those things, but when others do it, it is gross. That is the hypocrisy of our nation. It is a matter of perspective.Mindsets
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AGAINST: Do we think that PDA is something that only people of loose moral character engage in because we are brought up to think that way or is PDA really a threat to our morality?FOR: Yes, we have grown up in a society where sex and everything associated with it is considered taboo. When we look from the lens of this puritanical morality, anything and everything will appear wrong. But, it is only by questioning ourselves, our teachings and logic can we come to any conclusion about the effect that PDA has on our society.
Note: This post has been written like this since it really did happen in this way. And yes, I didn’t want to reveal the name of the person involved in the argument or which sides either of us took. I would like the reader to decide which side makes more sense and I’d like to know what he/she thinks about this issue. Do let me know.
