The Punctually Focused ones: They are like your corporate bosses, never late, hair combed strongly, shirt well tucked in, shoe polished. They don't know this thing called being late, everything they do; they do well ahead of time. They get good grades in school, then get a good engineering college [or medical, nothing else] they don't waste too much time thinking what career they should choose. They agree to the masses, if this is the boom right now, they will go for it. Then they get a good job in some MNC, work in there; get regular promotions and ends up retiring there only. They close all the doors that can lead them to "think out of the box". So, despite of having an average IQ level, these people achieve everything the society demands out of a citizen. They have many small targets which they achieve one after another. They become the perfect spouse too, buying their wives happiness. The Best Part is: They have one single agenda, Hard Work. They believe: “if you want this, you must work hard”.
And the other kind I admire:
The Passionately Focused ones: They
have a purpose, they have one passion or a set of passion, thinking of which
they spend all their day. They don’t wake for days and they don’t sleep for
days too. They are estranged from family, because when they listened to their
family they could not come up with the kind of art they had produced living
alone with austerity. They don’t try to please the society, actually it works
only this way; they are better artist because they only please themselves. They
are brave, if they don’t like your company, they will throw you out of your
house and if they like it, they will die for you. Their friends try to suggest them
that how they should live according to the society but they listen to their
heart only. They know, they don’t belong to the society, so they happily leaves
their family, they don’t run after getting married or having kids. The Best Part is: Whatever they do,
they do with passion, and they spend all their life to find one answer or may
be a couple of them. In short, their life are wasted till the most part of it,
when one day they achieve their one and only target, like a painting idea
struck with an unusual finish to it, or a literary twist comes up in mind after
some 10 years. They are mavericks. They are understood by other mavericks only.
They believe: “I am born for this, let’s not waste time doing that”.
And then there is the third kind, the people of the 21st century, it’s sad but we can’t be like the 2nd kind I mentioned. However passionate we tell ourselves; you have to admit, at some point even your soul mate finds you crazy and then you start behaving maturely to please your better half and in this way you can never be a passionately focused soul. Almost every day we have to ignore our passion for some other responsibility of our family or our career or kids or anyone else. Even a passionate movie maker in India is bound to use the F*** word many a times, what if one of his scenes demands such obscenity and abusiveness, why can’t he use it. As a result, his passionate abusing scene has been taken to toll by the society.
But there is always the first kind you can be.
-Amritt Rukhaiyaar
