1. Not everyone you call "friend" is your friend. There is a huge difference between a "friend", and a friend. Not all your friends wanna see you succeed. They smile a little inside when you fail and frown when you're not looking, in your Up moments. They secretly hope to see you fall.
2. You can find a great friend in someone, until you begin to accomplish. "They want you to do better, as long as you don't do better than them. Don't be surprised if your success turns friends into strangers. They love you until you become competition"-Quote
3. Never force a friendship, conversation or anything actually. If someone doesn't wanna let you in their life, Quit trying. Respect yourself enough to stop making wasteful time Joan. If a friendship is forced, it's probably fake.4. Beware of attention seekers. Don't give them your time, for they come with unnecessary drama made up stories and do things to draw attention to themselves
5. Don't make time for those who can't make time for you. Never make others a priority when you're just an option
6. And most importantly, never let the flames of good old friendships burn out! You may not talk to some friends in ages but somehow you're still so close. I'd rather have a few good friends than 20 "friends"
This is me, speaking from the heart as usual...but you know what? We live, we learn, we grow.Have a blessed day! Joan. A
