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I was in the process of writing this and was about to apologizing for not blogging. Why should I be sorry? I'm out living my life which all of us bloggers preach about. This move was so last minute, unexpected, and thrilling...all at the same time. (I don't know if I was out living my life, but these were things that needed to get done.) I don't know about y'all but I apologize for everything. Some things I can't control but I still apologize. I apologize when when someone else dog barks at Heisman. I apologized when someone didn't want to be in the wedding after I left them pick out their dresses first. When someone else hurts my feelings. I could literally go on and on. In this article they say women apologize more than men. (Which we knew that.) Also women use sorry as much as hello and goodbye. By apologizing for something that's not our fault, it affects our self esteem. No wonder women are always suffering for low self esteem. I often use sorry as a way go keep the peace. Its easier to say sorry and move on than to harp on it. I'm often the one to be the better person, apologize, and move on. Sometimes an apology is the last thing I want to do. In the article it says women apologize to be polite and/respected in the office. Men won't apologize b/c they will be viewed as weak. Women want to be equals in the office so we need to stop apologizing. So here are some tips to eliminate the apologizies: 1. Keep track of the apologizes. I'm kinda afraid to do this one. I think that I would be shocked on how much I apologize about the silliest things. 2. Save the sorries for real events that warrant an apology. 3. Say sorry in code. Instead of saying sorry I'm late. Use thanks for your understanding. Do you apologize for the random things? Do you have more tips?
